37…Week Uno

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It’s been a rough week. A rough 2 weeks if we’re keeping it a buck but you catch my drift.

I had grand plans for my birthday week. The plan was that I was going to work the 8th (my …

Bar None. Everything Included

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This includes burying my best friend of 20 years. This includes burying my favorite paternal aunt, who was a guiding light during some very stressful and crazy times during my life. Pretty much everything in my life up to 3 …

Draft Count: 35

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I was really sitting here lamenting having 34 posts in my drafts and got mad about it. When I started this blog 8 years ago, it was to keep some of my writing that I had done for Tom Wars …


1. This bullshit with my sister is draining. Really really draining. She’s been the same manipulative asshole since we were kids. Everyone sees through it but my dad and that shit is putting a strain on OUR relationship. It’s putting …

DC Beerfest Outtake 1

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Birthday weekend. Photo project announcement (maybe. Might keep it under my hat so I don’t jinx myself/get lazy). Might get drunk Saturday and eat burgers all night. Maybe write more?


Yeah right.


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The homies. Drankin potnas. Road dogs. Brothers.

Life Is Weird

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The same dudes that my dad used to chase from in front of the house (also, the same dudes that afforded me opportunities to help my parents out monetarily for a while. and buy my own school clothes. and pay …

Progress…I Think

I deleted my best friend’s phone number today. Again. For the 4th time since he died. Here’s to hoping it sticks.

A Thing About Human Nature

It pervades every decision you make. Every action you take. Every conversation you have you. It determines what words you use and the posture you take when body languages betrays them. Sometimes, your mask slips. It happens.

I say all …