I used to be that person that confused sex and love/intimacy. While you can have all with the same person at the same time, that’s not always the case. I was out here being reckless looking for intimacy through sex …
Category Archives: Observations and Discoveries
LadyWimminz. Listen.
Keep in mind, I’m somewhat of a controversial blogger because I wear a Yankee fitted in a lot of pics.
Anyway.
If a dude is going to respect you, he’s going to respect you no matter what you wear on …
Discuss
A documentary *of sorts* that someone on Twitter hipped me to about why Black men from the United States travel outside of the country to find companionship. I think the film brought up some valid points all around, even though …
© 2012 EyanJ. All rights reserved.
Let Me Put Y’all Youngings Up On Game
And y’all older MFers that don’t know any better.
Say you’re sitting on the couch and your lady is laying on you/near you. Y’all are type comfortable, she’s watching TV/reading or you’re watching TV/reading…rub her ass. Don’t be all aggressive …
From The Private Stash
I have a private Tumblr where I keep a majority of my salacious thoughts. There are times where I’m thinking about something/someone and I don’t want to have it broadcast to the world on here, regular Tumblr, or Twitter. Every …
I
am not perfect. I am faulty like any other human being on the face of the Earth. I accept these faults and do my best to correct them. Sometimes I try too hard, sometimes I don’t try hard enough. I …
Demolition (Wo)Man
So you’re home minding your own business looking through the newspaper we call life. There’s always sad things in the news, the editorials are crazy so you never agree with anything in them, sports is boring this time of year..so …
© 2012 EyanJ. All rights reserved.
One Of The Reasons This African/African-American vs Black Americans Debate Annoys The Everloving Shit Out Of Me
I wrote this earlier on Tumblr during a discussion *or whatever you want to call it* about the subject. It was suggested that post it here too because I waste too many things on Tumblr.
Some of you have in
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Sitting Here Listening to Stone Temple Pilots
Which made me think about the amazing conversations about a BUNCH of random non-connected things with the same person. Especially Saturday night. And Sunday morning.
Happy Eyan is happy.
And I wonder who won the bet between Robert Downey …
© 2012 EyanJ. All rights reserved.
Another Year, Another Beer…aka The Partial Mental Health Post
Today is Tuesday May 8th 2012, my 32nd birthday. As I write these words in this fancy ass notebook, I’m sitting outside on the dock of one of my favorite bays in South Jersey contemplating my life. Not in an …
Man Listen….
I just saw something on Tumblr that made me save the OTHER post I was half assed working on to write this.
The comments on those pics of JImi kissing a black woman got y’all mad? For the fuck WHAT? …
Racism Doesn’t Affect Me
Because I don’t let it.  Y’all need to learn that the system that jams you up can ALSO be jammed up. And often times, finding that loophole and exploiting brings more light to your “cause” than ranting and raving on …